Boyet, Go To Hell!
Monday, March 23, 2009I haven't heard of the name Boyet Fajardo not until yesterday when my cousin told me about this faggot who made a scene in one of the Duty Free stores here in the country. My cousin though wasn't good enough in picking up the details of the news, even missing out the name of that particular designer. So, I googled it up and to my surprise a long list of blogs and forums are already dedicated to this bitch's intolerable attitude.
When I first heard of the news, I instantly got irritated on how he acted. More so, when I finally got a chance to peep on the CCTV recording of the incident (thanks to youtube). Just look on how pitiful the male attendant was; kneeling for forgiveness to a mistake he didn't do just to keep to his job. Shame on you Boyet Fajardo.
And in the first place, the name Boyet Fajardo doesn't ring a bell. So whether the ID requirement was SOP or not, his fake and "effort-full" VIP status is just the same when our househelp goes to Duty Free to shop. You're not Imelda, Mr. Fajardo.
There is no point in trying to clean up your name. You blew it Boyet. You have just won a backstage pass of the movie,'Business going Bankrupt'. 'Cause no one's buying your line anymore. Mr. Fajardo, have you heard the word BOYCOTT?
Nostalgic
Sunday, March 22, 2009This morning I was looking for an old document I have in my PC when I came across this folder full of raw photos of our yearbook class picture. Then it came to me that a year has just passed since we parted ways March of last year.
After our graduation, we had different career moves. Many, decided to work in Manila and a few, including me, stayed here in my laid-back Davao. Just recently, I have stumbled upon a few classmates from college. I learned from them how our other friends are doing now.
Thank God, no one has died yet. Two of my girl classmates got married. Two or three went on to law school. While a big number work in contact centers. The idea of a class reunion keeps on popping-up, but hey, we're not that old yet. Three or four more years, let's just see.
There are many fishes in the sea...
Sunday, March 22, 2009Our fish tank was empty for almost a year. A year before that, my older brother got hooked on raising his own Flowerhorn. The fish, I tell you, is not that aesthetically gifted. It has this huge lump on the head and black stains all over the sides of the fish's body. The stains, according to my brother, are supposed to form some Chinese characters which I really doubt to be true. But my brother would really insist. And for that, I call him delusional.
He eventually got tired staring at the fish. The Flowerhorn was given to his friend and I have no news about the creature since then. The fish tank was left empty not until two weeks ago that he decided to raise Orandas, two Golds and one pretty in Black.
I really like the fishes now. They look so regal when they move around. Perhaps, adding two more Orandas would complement the still big space of the fish tank.
Rico Blanco, Ely Buendia and Rocksteddy
Saturday, March 21, 2009Globe Telecom was one of the major sponsors of the 72nd Araw ng Dabaw celebration. For the week-long festivities, the communication giant flew in the country's hottest bands for a night full of great music. Rocksteddy, Rico Blanco and Pupil (the new band of ely buendia) took Davao with a big bang. Too bad, I did not make it to the show for some very important reasons. I had the chance though of taking some photos of some avid fans taking their turns in one of the ticket outlets in town.
Kayod, Kayod...
Saturday, March 21, 2009I've been keeping myself busy with work lately; going around town interviewing some not so popular personalities. The job however has recently become a headache. I am burdened with the task of making inspiring-slash-interesting stories out of some very bland-slash-plain celebrity wannabes.
Well, save for the person whose photos appear above. Aside from the way he seats for an interview, Wally (not his real name), is a dance choreographer and, believe it or not, he was jailed before for about seven months by committing two-counts of frustrated murder. Knowing his quote and quote gloomy past, had me think twice of making my moves in between his legs.
Twisted!
Saturday, March 14, 2009
I wish we could undo life and had it reformat the way we like it to be. Where one could easily push backspace or have his/her life justified. But apparently, there is no right-click nor a cascading list of options available. Life is completely different from our personal computers at home.It would never be on a WYSIWYG format (what you see is what you get).
I want to apologize for not updating my blog for quite a long time. I had personal issues that I have to attend to. And seeing and reading my blog would somehow make it more difficult for me to move on. Yes. To move on. But I guess its easier said than done.
I'm writing this now in an almost empty internet cafe. Weird, but the silence of the room makes me feel more lonely. Not alone, but lonely. I don't know why. But I really, honestly, feel lonely tonight. Something is missing. Something.
I want to apologize for not updating my blog for quite a long time. I had personal issues that I have to attend to. And seeing and reading my blog would somehow make it more difficult for me to move on. Yes. To move on. But I guess its easier said than done.
I'm writing this now in an almost empty internet cafe. Weird, but the silence of the room makes me feel more lonely. Not alone, but lonely. I don't know why. But I really, honestly, feel lonely tonight. Something is missing. Something.
I Have Nothing to Write
Thursday, January 08, 2009It got me. My laziness I mean. I'm just too tired to think of something that I can write about. My day was a drag for a fact. Woke up at six to rush the material for tomorrow's airing. Went home after lunch. Did some blog reading. By late afternoon, Weng, a close friend, went to the house to use my brother's PC. I got tired. Took a little nap for two hours. By eight, Weng and I ate dinner together. A little talk. My other gay friends, Jonnel and Ovit came by. A little more talk. Then went home. Nothing special really happened. And as the rain is pouring heavy outside, I think I leave my day this way. Dry.
Photo: Someone, they call Joseph
The Walk, First Time Series>>>
Tuesday, January 06, 2009Jing went to sleep early while Ovit was no where to be found. And so just last night, the task of scouting the city's streets and narrow pathways of gorgeous boys were all in my feet and those of Brian's.
Just past 11 we took the familiar route around downtown. Me and Brian brawled the humid night and sifted the silent streets fresh from the holiday exodus. We easily glided our way around the blocks with the hope to tame a creature in this place we call, the jungle of men.
But like all the other walks we took, we realized that we are not alone. Our chums from a not-so-far-away land also took the yellow brick road.
Those who take the walk need not explain. As the gathering itself is the ultimate justification of lost souls, all weary and tired of their superiors' fancy.
Honestly, I enjoy the walk. Not the walk itself, which I tell you drains me sometimes, but I enjoy the experience that goes with it. Let's just call the streets our very own treadmill with a little sensual twist.
Well, aside from the thrill of meeting/molesting men who posed as willing victims to thirsty vampires of our kind, the walk itself is a way of replenishing one's parched existence. As we walk, we do not only move our limbs. We cease the fleeting moment to catch-up with each other's lives. We fill the gaps which set us apart. We try to be one. We tell each of our stories as if they are chants to attract luck.
But when it was time for me and Brian to rest as we were almost half-way in our journey, it came to me that Brian and Ovit were with me when I took my first walk. There I met this average looking guy who I had sex with in a public rest room.
That was three years ago and until now, I still find pleasure in this very addicting midnight hobby - the walk.
To end this entry let me share to you a poem (below) and a photo (above). A poem writtten by J. Neil C. Garcia, the editor of the Ladlad Series. The photo; a guy I met along this avenue about a month ago. He introduced himself as Leo.
I'm Tired of the Seduction of Boys
I'm tired of the seduction of boys
touching crotches with brown careless hands,
the smiles thrown too easily,
the moist and lip-licking tongues.
On jeepneys they sidle up close,
tap your side with an errant finger, or footsy
under rheumaticky expressions of women
dogged by too much dust to care.
By the basketball courts
on streets forced into blindness by joy,
they sling creamywhite tank-tops
over shoulders, croon and preen like
fabled magnificent birds.
The gamy smell of armpits,
the shrill uncurling hairs.
Boys laid out to sweat
and be odorous in the sun:
of their tight and sour skins I'm cloyed beyond
redemption. I've tired of the concupiscent moments
of hearing the rush of blood
into my body's cavernous pockets:
of squeezing shut the dull, exclusive pain
of a throbbing, pig-headed erection.
I'm unmoved by boys
and their penises that fill my mouth
with a promise of red sunsets
bursting like bubblegum dreams, tasteful
as sweetmeats gone stale.
Perhaps it's time
to stop being much to swift to spot
in a crowd shuffling downcast and lonely.
Perhaps, it's my turn to do them a good turn,
to throw a smile and meekly touch the crotch,
flick out the dark assuming tongue,
and do the seducing
for a little, spare change.
I'm tired of the seduction of boys
touching crotches with brown careless hands,
the smiles thrown too easily,
the moist and lip-licking tongues.
On jeepneys they sidle up close,
tap your side with an errant finger, or footsy
under rheumaticky expressions of women
dogged by too much dust to care.
By the basketball courts
on streets forced into blindness by joy,
they sling creamywhite tank-tops
over shoulders, croon and preen like
fabled magnificent birds.
The gamy smell of armpits,
the shrill uncurling hairs.
Boys laid out to sweat
and be odorous in the sun:
of their tight and sour skins I'm cloyed beyond
redemption. I've tired of the concupiscent moments
of hearing the rush of blood
into my body's cavernous pockets:
of squeezing shut the dull, exclusive pain
of a throbbing, pig-headed erection.
I'm unmoved by boys
and their penises that fill my mouth
with a promise of red sunsets
bursting like bubblegum dreams, tasteful
as sweetmeats gone stale.
Perhaps it's time
to stop being much to swift to spot
in a crowd shuffling downcast and lonely.
Perhaps, it's my turn to do them a good turn,
to throw a smile and meekly touch the crotch,
flick out the dark assuming tongue,
and do the seducing
for a little, spare change.
Random: More Videos!
Sunday, January 04, 2009Let's say I already have a substantial experience being inside gay bars in the Philippines. But no matter where I go, be it in Manila or in Cebu or even here in laidback Davao, the bars never fail to surprise me with their chronic routines. A dim stage with men clad with almost nothing to nothing at all are worshiped by their patrons while dancing sensualy to your favorite tunes.
Cream
Black Costume
Polka
Random: Personality Test
Sunday, January 04, 2009iPersonic will help you to determine your personality type in less than 5 minutes. Get to know yourself better. And find what you need to be happier. Start now!
I took mine and here's the result.
thanks meow for the link....
Random: It's About Time!
Sunday, January 04, 2009
I just to share some of the videos I collected online. Enjoy!
Jomar
Tarzan
Jomar
Top Hat
Tarzan
Bridal Shower
Random: Brand New!
Saturday, January 03, 2009I want my first blog entry for this year to be 'happy'. A little break from my previous posts which have been a bit heavy to read. It has been very frustrating for my part to end 2008 that way. But since it's a new year, I want to open it with a bang!
Perhaps to write a list of the good things which happened to me last year. A quick recall of the many firsts of my young life and of course my little achievements for the past year.
1. FINISHING MY THESIS. I planned the whole of my last year in college around this one. Thanks Microsoft.
2. A COLLEGE DEGREE. After five years of hard work and sleepless nights I finally graduated from college last year.
3. MY FIRST JOB. I tried working in a contact center in Central Visayas after graduation. I had fun in the beginning but I eventually lost my appetite for this kind of work. I went AWOL (4. FIRST AWOL) on my second month.
5. FIRST TIME LIVING IN A DIFFERENT CITY. It was a learning experience being alone and outside of your comfort zone. Although for a very short time i had the opportunity living in a house with strangers, and sharing a room with someone other than my brothers.
6. BEING PART OF THE UNEMPLOYED WORK FORCE. I hated the feeling of doing nothing for a couple of months. But c'mon, give the guy a little vacation :)
7. FIRST ROAD TRIP. While waiting for a job opportunity, I had the chance to work part time for a small company that handles corporate events. And one of my job assignments included a road show within Greater Southern Mindanao. 5 cities in 5 days. wooohhh!!!
8. MY BIG BREAK. I really did not expect it to come but when I was offered to write (the whole script is done in Cebuano) and direct my own local TV show, I did not think twice.